The Sufis advise us to speak only after our words have
managed to pass through three gates. At the first gate, we
ask ourselves, “Are these words true?” If so, we let them
pass on; if not, back they go. At the second gate, we ask,
“Are they necessary?” At the last gate, we ask
“Are they kind?” Eknath Easwaran
Hmm…Learning to rehearse the response….
No wonder they whirl in silence, think I might join them……